you wake up. i'm 58. it took me 50 years to realize i was a great beauty because the culture got its hands on me and said, buy, shop, achieve, lose weight, a gain weight. that is why i got dreadlocks. i wanted to look in the mirror and say, you are so beautiful. we have a situation here on our hands. i look in the mirror and go, you are so beautiful today, princess. it takes a radical act to stop listening to the voice of the culture and go, i have me, i got me back, the woman's movement gave me me back, the church gave me me back, i am chosen, i am safe, i am loved, and i go, thank you, thank you, thank you. then i can chase down an airplane, right? i could. tavis: i am trying to move on to wow. i cannot go yet.